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Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Our last night in Guangzhou!

I cannot believe I am typing that this is our last night in Guangzhou. This has been an incredible trip. One that we'll never forget. It hasn't been an easy one, though. We started off with Doug having surgery right before we left. He has been a trooper, but I know he has endured A LOT of pain and really tried to be strong for me. This is an emotional ride in itself, and with the added stress, pain, and worry for doug, shew, it's just been challenging to say the least. Leaving behind our other three children has ripped our hearts in two. We know how important the time we've spent with Lily has been, but it hasn't made missing our children and our heartaches for them go away by any means. Skyping was wonderful, but so difficult to hold back the tears..especially when one of them was crying. Bryson was the one that had the hardest time this time. Bren did when we went to Ethiopia. Lola Joy has started some temper tantrums we hear, so we're thinking this is her way of expressing that she misses us as well. The past few days, Doug and I had some kind of stomach issues. We were visiting the restrooms frequently to say the least, smells made us even sicker, and seeing the foods here just made us want to throw up..so it's been ONE CRAZY RIDE!! We are dreading the 23 hours of travels home, but cannot wait to get home. Doug asked me to click my ruby slippers cause there is NO PLACE LIKE HOME!! Lily is doing well. The only struggle we have with her is bedtime at night. She just falls asleep so easily in the daytime, but tonight she SCREAMED! Finally she fell asleep on my chest. I held her until she was really good and asleep and laid her in bed with us (where she has slept each night with us). We know there will be many challenges when we get home. The challenges of giving attention to all four of our children and making all of them feel treasured and special. Going ANYWHERE with the little girls will be a challenge.ha. School, homework, work, ballgames. Laundry.Surgeries. and more. Yep, it will all be there waiting for us. But God has called us to this place and He will equip us and see us through. Please keep us in your prayers as we fly...and return home.
I have to say a HUGE thank you to our "VILLAGE" back home that helped keep our kids going through all of this. Words cannot express our gratitude. We know we are so blessed and have shared that with everyone here. You are priceless and we thank God for the BEST FAMILY and Friends ever!
And to our 3 babies at home...WE'LL be home soon! We're are so proud of you! Can't wait to snuggle and catch up on everything. You're the best little ones a Momma could ever have. LOVE YOU!!!!!

Thanks for the love and prayers,
Doug, Julie and Lily

We fly out at 9:50 a.m. tomorrow morning for Hong Kong. We spend the night there and hop on our flight to Michigan. It's at 9 something a.m. We aren't sure if we'll post in hong kong, but if not, hope to see you in Louisville on the 17th at 4:39 p.m.
pray for lily and mommy and daddy on the looong flight:-)

9 comments:

Hollie said...

Yea! Your coming home:) We can't wait to see you! Praying for your safe travels. Counting down til your in Louisville!

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The Gutmans' said...

Reading your post we have laughed & we have cried, it's been such a blessing to be just a part of your journey. This post has really torn at my heart strings, I know what emotions you are feeling, I felt this way while in ET. Feeling so blessed to be able to have that special bonding time, blessed to be in your childs birthcountry but yet your heart is breaking for your other babies. I also felt so worried about juggling 4 kids & all the things that goes with it, but God has taken care of everything, it's been amazing to say the least, he has taken care of every detail. Your hubby has been such a trooper to say the least, what an amazing hubby/father. We are praying for safe travels, praying for Doug, praying for all of your sweet babies, praying for what is to come for your family when you get home. Can't wait to see you all as a family of 6, it's about time, ha!!! Prayers, love, xxx's & ooo's from us!

Kerri said...

Praying over your flights home. If there are tough moments try hard to focus on what's waiting on the other side of that arrival gate in KY! HE has been gathering His children from afar and you have been an open vessel! Funny side note...got a message from Sho's Hope to volunteer at the show in Cincy but guess what we'll be too busy welcoming home Lily! Heading south for a quick hello and a peek at the precious 4 all together! Sending you so much love!

Julie R. said...

My heart hurts for you in those hard moments. Your authenticity is heartfelt as you share what this experience has been like for you. I remember feeling in our China adoption that it was all very emotional and very intense, and it sounds like that is some of what you are describing. There are great joys to be celebrated, blessings to be enjoyed, and at the same time there are difficult things (like stomach woes and long travel and being far from home and your three kids) that can be heart wrenching in the midst of it all.

You are almost there -- cheering you on in this final leg of the trip. Praying for strong health, rest in the moments you can, smooth travel mercies, and strength of heart. Home and family await, and what a sweet reunion that will be...

gordie said...

miss you guys so much. cant wait till you get home and i can hug you guys. praying for your safe return. you know you'll always be my baby! love daddy

Tiffany said...

Yay! I know it's been "forever" for you guys but you can see the light at the end of the tunnel now! Sorry you haven't felt well. Would love to be there to see the joyful(tearful) reunion, but you know where i'll be, lol! Praying for you and yours, always! Love ya!

Emy said...

HOME! WOO HOO!!! We'll be praying for this last part of your trip to be fast, easy and safe! And for you guys to be feeling better and Lily to be feeling SLEEPY, HA! I can't wait to see Lily Hope with her big brothers and sister FOREVER! We love you guys and have had so much fun following along! There's no place like home, so come on already! ;o)
By the way, your Daddy is the sweetest! :..)

Johnelle said...

Continuing to pray for you all and especially on your journey home!!!! Love you all and be safe. Hope to see the Stanley family of 6 soon!!!
Love ya!